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Unveil Your Purple Hyacinth: A Simple Act of Kindness Can Change Everything

Writer's picture: Lola AdeosunLola Adeosun

Updated: Feb 25



A Supermarket Encounter That Changed My Perspective


You won’t believe what happened to me the other day. It started as a simple trip to my local supermarket. I had a craving for mackerel in spicy tomato sauce—so strong that I was willing to venture out just for that one item. But little did I know, my short errand would turn into something much more meaningful.


As I approached the store, I noticed a woman by the entrance. She wasn’t just standing there; she was actively asking people for 50 pence. Now, in today’s economy, 50 pence doesn’t get you much, so I was intrigued.


When she approached me and asked, I simply replied, “Do you need more than that?” To my surprise, she firmly shook her head. “No, I just need 50 pence to get to Plumstead.”


Something about her confidence struck me, so I nodded, walked into the store, and returned moments later with some spare change, handing it to her before going back to my original mission—getting my mackerel.


But then something unexpected happened........


The Surprise Reunion in Aisle Three

As I walked through the aisles, scanning the shelves for my item, I spotted a familiar face standing next to me. It was her. The same woman who had asked for 50 pence moments earlier.


Curious, I asked, “Are you okay?”


With a smile, she responded, “Actually, I’d love an energy drink.”


I chuckled and asked her which one she preferred. Without hesitation, she strolled to a different aisle and grabbed a specific brand and flavor. That’s when it hit me—I had met her before.

This wasn’t our first interaction.


A few weeks prior, she had asked for money outside the same supermarket, telling me she needed a ready meal. Back then, I had offered to buy her food instead, and she had quickly navigated the store to pick exactly what she wanted.


And here she was again—same confidence, same quick decision-making. But she didn’t recognize me.


Intrigued, I asked if she wanted a hot meal to go with her drink. Without missing a beat, she said “Of course” and picked out a ready-made chow mein meal—her personal favorite. Then she glanced at the dessert section and went straight for the largest bowl of trifle.


I was amused. She had a clear sense of what she wanted, and she wasn’t afraid to ask for it. But the conversation soon took a turn that hit me straight in the heart.


A Realization That Broke My Heart

As we approached the checkout, she casually mentioned something that made me pause.


“I really needed this hot meal. My diabetes acts up when I don’t eat on time, and it makes me sick.”


I felt my heart clutch in my chest.


I had no idea she was diabetic. That small 50 pence she asked for wasn’t just about getting to another location—it was part of a much bigger struggle.


I stood there, speechless for a moment. But in that silence, I realized something:

I couldn’t change her entire situation, but in that moment, I had made a difference. She wouldn’t go hungry that evening. She wouldn’t get sick. And that was enough.


Unveil Your Purple Hyacinth

This experience reminded me of a simple truth: It only takes one person, one moment, to make a difference.

And sometimes, that moment is given to you—to extend kindness, to listen, to help without hesitation.

We all have opportunities to unveil your Purple Hyacinth—that moment of unexpected kindness that blooms into something beautiful.


So, here’s my challenge to you: What has been your Memriz moment this week?


Have you had an encounter that changed your perspective? A small act of kindness that made a big impact? Maybe at work, at home, or even in a parking lot?

I’d love to hear about it! Share your stories and let’s inspire each other.


Because you never know—you might just be someone’s unexpected blessing today.


Have a lovely week, and don’t forget to unveil your Purple Hyacinth. 🌸

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